Monday, January 21, 2008
Vir's next target was the birthday girl, who was dressed up as a fairy (or a butterfly?) Her wings were obviously tempting...who wouldn't want to grab and pull at those things? I had to lift him and put him in a little round play pen in the room. The birthday girl, Inaya, joined him there in a bit. He bullied her so much that I had to lift him out eventually. Love was beginning to blossom by this time, so Vir and Inaya spent the next 15 minutes holding hands and "talking" to each other across the wall of the play pen. It was the cutest thing to watch - this little lovey-dovey conversation, and I think they may be friends after all...till she realizes he's too much to handle and dumps him.
The other highlight was a dance performance from him in her honor. Vir has become quite the dancer now with a whole array of steps up his sleeve - from the slow side to side swaying, to jerking his head up and down like a camel and alternating this with a little butt shake. Sometimes, when he's really carried away by the music, he bends down all the way to the floor and does a little jig. I have video recordings which will be fun to show his girlfriend one day.
All in all, he has some work to do on his social skills, but everyone had a good time and that's what counts!
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Where's a coffin when you need one?
Thursday, January 10, 2008
- Mashui left for her vacation with Vijay and me scrambling to maintain some order in our house - bad
- We bought a house, our first ever - very good
- We tried day care for Vir - okay
- We decided not to go with the day care for now and made a last minute decision to take him to Ddun and leave him with my mom - good (we thought)
- There was a problem with the house we bought - very bad
- The problem is more or less sorted after much screaming and shouting - okay
- I left Vir in Dun and came back thinking I have a week or so by myself, but he went on a hunger srike and I had to return in 2 days - bad. sigh.
- Vir now has a stomach infection - very bad
This roller coaster life will leave a wreck where I used to be. But for now, while I can still think straight, here's the good part...Vir's list of achievements this month! Here's all the stuff he can now do:
- Cruise! He can hold on to things (furniture, my pyjamas, hanging tablecloths, etc.) and walk! He was a little slow at this initially, but picked up confidence in no time at all and, this morning, walked up and down our verandah 6 times pushing a plastic chair.
- Kiss better than ever
- Roar like a tiger
- Boo like a cow (he had forgotten this, but has picked it up again)
- Dance using his head and the rest of his body alternately
- Shake hands
- Wave bye sometimes
- Understand several things like stand up, let's go out, do you want to have milk?, where's biji?, and are you having fun? Some of these are in Hindi and some in English. Curiously, he has not demonstrated and understanding of the simplest of words - "no"
- Spit out food that he doesn't like. This is a terrible development, since it means I can no longer trick him into eating. I can take the horse to the water now, but no longer can I make him drink.
- Jabber in a language I can't understand yet, though I pretend to and even manage to talk back in the same language!
There's more, I know, and I gues I'll just add to this if I think of something else. The best part this month, for me, was when I came back to Dehradun after having left him for three days with mom and dad. The welcome I got from my sleepy little kid simply cannot be beaten. I think I'll smile about that for the rest of my life!